Monday, December 26, 2016

NATIONAL CONSULTATION ON STATE FACILITATED SUPPORT SERVICES UNDER PWDV ACT 2005 

A National Consultation was organized by Mahila Jagran Kendra in collaboration with CARE India on 29th November'2016 on the above said topic. The chief Guest of this program was Finance Minister of Government of Bihar, Shri Abdul Bari Siddiqui. 












Saturday, July 2, 2016


Consultation with health group



A STATE LEVEL EVENT 

'' JUSTICE  FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE  SURVIVORS''

Consultation with health group

EFFECTIVE  IMPLEMENTATION OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT

Organized By Mahila Jagran kendra  & Care India


THE WORKSHOP
Mahila Jagran Kendra organized a workshop with the help of Care India on 19th December 2015 at A.N.Sinha Institute. It was a state level workshop on “Justice for Victims of Domestic Violence”. The participants were from three blocks of Patna and Samastipur ( Barh, Maner, Masauri Vidyapatinagar,Ujyarpur, and Saraiganj) they were  Doctors, ANM and Aasha Workers.


The workshop started by the welcome speech from Ms. Babita. Mahila Jagran Kendra is working from 25 years on the issues of child and women welfare. It is working in 18 Districts and 24 Blocks of Bihar. Also it has counseling centre in 9 Districts and 11 Blocks of Bihar. These counseling centers works on the problems of women giving counseling and legal advice's. This organization has organized several workshops on women welfare.
Presently this organization is working with the support of Care India in 2 districts of Bihar that are Patna and Samastipur on women welfare. Earlier the organization was working with the Police Officers, PRI Members and Protection Officers but with the support from Care India it also started working with the health officers. It is very important to work with the health officers because primarily health is affected from the violence on women. To eradicate this problem from our society we need to make small steps. There are many laws made for the welfare of people, but people are unaware of these laws. We should work together to make people aware of these law. Every women of the country must know about her rights and by working with health officials we can reach every woman. Considering all this we organized a one day workshop in District and State level on “Justice for Victims of Domestic Violence”. The participants were the members of Gram Panchayat, CDPO, Anganwadi Workers, Aasha Workers, Mamta, ANM, Doctors, Police officers and members of Health Workers. There was also a state level workshop with the advocates and Police Officers.
Our today’s workshop is for the Aasha and ANM workers, so that whenever they are on their field visit to the local houses and come across the victims of Domestic Violence, they could help the victims by telling them about the laws and conventions made by the government. This workshop is different from all the workshops we have conducted earlier. They merely discussed about gender, violence and domestic violence act. But during our follow-up visit we found out that they were not capable enough to counsel or guide the victim of domestic violence. In this workshop we are aiming to make them capable enough so that they can counsel the victims individually and make them aware of their rights. To discuss about these laws we have two resource persons with us; they are Dr. Meeta Mohini (Advocate of Patna High Court) and Ms. Pramila Kumari (Protection Officer of Women Helpline of Patna.
First of all we offer the stage to Dr Meeta Mohini (Advocate of Patna High Court) to come up and tell the participants about today’s discussion.




The speaker Dr. Meta Mohini said that women are undergoing violence inside their own house and the family hides this thing from the outside world. Earlier we saw male dominant society. But from the starting itself men and women have been given equal importance. Women are worshiped as deity. Girls are given less education than boys, they are forced to leave the school and sit at their homes to get married. But on the other hand, for the sons, parents sell their farm lands for their further education. Boys have their own choice for education but at the same age girls are married. The minimum age of girl’s marriage is 18 years but they can also be married at the age of 20-25 or 30. When girls are married at tender ages they undergo physical and mental violence.
Also at some places they have to face sexual harassment by some family members. Girls have no prior knowledge of being sexual harassed. Like for example, there are many relatives inside the house like uncle, brothers, brother-in-law and other male members who forcefully make them see dirty pictures against the wish of the girl. When the girl tell about this to their mother, instead of rising their voice against this injustice they tell their daughters to sit at homes for maintaining the family reputation. In the house when a woman asks for money for their children fees, the husbands tell them to get it from their maternal homes. But it is the right of the women, that if they are living with their husbands it is the responsibility of him to look after the needs of his family rather than asking for money from others.

One of the participant there Gayatri Devi told us about an incident about her own home where the husband and wife wants to live together but the mother-in-law does not allows them to live together because she demands for a car from her daughter-in-laws father.




Another participant there Mr. Vinod Tiwari told us about an another incident where the girl used to cry the whole day, when the local people asked for the reason she said that her mother-in-law will only accept her when she fixes her teeth. Even after fixing the teeth when she tried to get back home, the family did not accept her. Then with the help of local people she filled a case against her family. After filling the case the family accepted the girl.
One of the Aasha workers told us about her own sister. Her sister used to live with her own parents after getting married. After few days her husband passed away in an accident and the brother-in-law of the girl signed all the property to himself. Telling that the girl is mad and she do not require any share.
Presently the family is fitting a case against the in-laws family.
Ms. Archana from Samistipur told that, this is the story of every house that whenever the male person gets sick they are immediately taken to hospital for their medication. Whereas when women get sick they are kept back home telling that there is no money at present and in this delay women dies.
Another participant there Manju told us about an incident where a child was sick from many days. He was suffering from stomach upset, when the people told the father to take him to doctor, the father said that he has eaten some unhygienic food and that’s why he is sick. The people told the family to take him to doctor but the family did not reacted, as a result of it the  boy died the next day. And now her mother is suffering from depression.

Mr. Rupesh said that there are two main problems in today’s society, 705 of the children born are malnourished. During pregnancy the mothers are not getting proper food as a result they give birth to unhealthy children. Domestic violence is a story of every house; women are undergoing violence from generations. If the child born is malnourished the generations after that will also be malnourished.
If a women comes to a hospital after being tortured from domestic violence than it is the duty of everyone present there to help her in getting justice. We all should know that what are our roles n the society. We are living in a society where we all should help one another. This should be the common agenda of everyone to follow their duties faithfully. The doctors should help their patients in getting justice. The teachers should look after the children, helping them not to go in mental depression due to any reason.
Dr. Mohini said that the common women of the house are suffering from cough and cold from many days but they are not taken to doctors. Parents do not pay attention to the running nose of their children. People avoid these things because they do not have proper knowledge about it.
They are unaware of the fact that these small things can result in some dangerous diseases. If a woman is not given proper food and she is beaten up every now and then, then she should be taken to the protection officer.
One of the participants there said that, there is a Muslim women who is always sick, her husband tells her to go to her native place because of her ill health. If that woman argues further then the husband threatens to leave her. When the local people tells the husband to take her to doctor he says that he is not a devil and he has taken her wife to doctor to get proper medication. But she is sick from head to toe and he cannot help her in that way. He has tried everything and he cannot do anything further.
Listening to this Dr. Meeta Mohini said that this is a domestic violence; there should be a trial for justice. There are three ways to approach, one is by meeting the protection officer, another by complaining in the nearby Police Station or by directly meeting the District Magistrate.
Our second speaker Ms. Pramila Kumari, Protection Officer under Women Helpline of Patna, said about the counseling of the suffering woman. The woman can get justice in just 3 days under the Women Helpline wing. It is better if the case is solved by counseling. One of the reasons for domestic violence is the money, if the woman earns even Rs. 10 and brings it to home then we must support her in this so that she is encouraged to bring more. We should not fight for every small thing rather we should solve it by talking to one another. Every house is like school, whoever has a problem in the house it must be solved quickly. If the problem is not solved by counseling we should move towards the local Police Station. The person should truthfully fight the case. In today’s generation women itself are the enemies of women. If mother-in-law has undergone violence than she treats her daughter-in-law in the same manner. The mother-in-law in her time used to get up early in the morning to grind the wheat but now she gets jealous of her daughter-in-law when she sees that her daughter do not need to do these things. The best school is ones home. A woman needs to be strong enough to face her own problems alone. The women must tolerate only to a limit. Duties and rights of both men and women should be same.
Our Third speaker Ms. Shruti Singh, Advocate of Patna High Court said about the Dowry Act. There have been many improvements in the cases of domestic violence after the law of PWDV Act of 2005. We approach court for the welfare of women, so that they could get equal importance and they are free to do work according to their own will.
There are many solutions under the PWDV Act of 2005. Usually mean go for second marriages because they are not getting a child. There’s no need of getting again married they could rather adopt a child. We are facing so many problems these days, but we do not know a correct way to solve them. We should keep a note of the fact that the laws are not misused. If a girl wants to be married by her own choice than her father should not stop her in this. Giving respect to your daughter is also a way of showing love.
The children should respect their mother. In some cases the ex-party are so dominant that they get the divorce done without the permission of women. Government is also not playing its role properly. The women should be allowed to work according to her need. In today’s generation if the girls are working then they gets more suitable boys for marriages.
For women the only way to solve problem is not to fight but should solve it by talking to their children and husband. If a girl wants her share in her father’s property than she can immediately stop the selling orders of the land. Even wife’s have an equal right in his husband’s property.
Dr. Ram Singh (PHC In charge, Vidyapatinagar Samastipur) explained the true meaning of wife. He said about the importance of one another in life. The man is incomplete without his wife. They must work together for a successful future.
Dr. Rashmi (Manner) said that, in today’s world women should come forward. It is very important for the women to be educated. If a women has 4 children of her own and the doctors are advising her to get operated for no more children than she tells that she will only be operated when her husband and mother-in-law allows her.
Dr. Pankaj (PHC Samastipur) said that, if a person takes help from law, there are more complications, so they should solve their fights by counseling rather than going to courts.
Dr. Ram Singh said, most of the cases coming to him is about the mental tension of women because they do not get enough money for the household affairs.


Dr. Arjun Kumar said, the most important thing to remember is morality. Today the government is openly advertising about the use of condoms, but they are not taking about being a good person. If a person has good moral values than he will need a condom.

Ms. Neelu chairperson of Mahila Jagran Kendra said, earlier we had male dominant society; we don’t say that we want a female dominant society now; we only want to get respect from others. In today’s generation if women are working than the men cook for them. If women 
want to work while raising her children, then we should not stop her from doing this.In the Marwari Society of Gujarat, the girls are not allowed to study after Metric because according to the family if they study more they will not get a suitable partner and then the family will not be able to give more money for the weeding. We should think about our upcoming generations. In order to have a good future we need to improve our understanding.
Dr. Ashok Kumar (Patna) said, we do not get education from degree. Education in morality is also very important. There should be an equal importance given to both. Son and daughter and men and women should be treated equally.
    Dr. Nityananda (Barh, Patna) said, in today’s world we should pay more attention to the mistakes of men. Somewhere women themselves tortures women, like the mother-in-law harassing her daughter-in-law. Son also helps their mother’s in threatening their daughters.
      Dr. Ashutosh ( Masuri, Patna) said, if the women is pregnant than her family must know about this. People should be aware of the duties. The husbands should be aware that if they do not take care of their wife’s properly then there may be further complications. It does not happen always that the family do not give proper food, sometimes the women herself do not eat properly.
After this the first session of the workshop ended for a break.
The second session started by a traditional song by Ms. Archanna.
There was an open session for answering the questions of the people present there. The three people on the stage were, Shrutee Singh (Protection Officer, Women Helpline, Patna), Ms. Neelu (Chairperson of Mahila Jagran Kendra) and Ms. Shivani Chaudhary (Secretary of Mahila Jagran Kendra).
Dr. Vinod said, from morning all the people present here have told enough about the domestic violence. If the women are educated than we can easily solve the cases of domestic violence. If we want to enjoy our rights we should do our duties properly.
Dr. Sachidheshwari Singh said about the awareness. Men and women should be aware of their rights and duties.
One of the Aasha Worker,  Malti Kumari said that in her village a husband used to beat her wife because she has already given birth to 4 girl child the fifth child was about to come. The husband has threatened her that if the next child born is a girl then he will not accept the child or his wife. Accidently the child born was also a girl and then the mother left the child with doctor and told everyone at home that the child died of cold. Later the same child was adopted by another family.
Dr. Ram Singh narrated a story of polio drops, where the father did not allowed her child to get the polio drops, but the mother wanted her child to get the drops. The person who was in charge of giving the polio drops came secretly to the house, gave the drops marked the child and went away.
Ms.Neelu said that if a woman is giving birth to a girl than it is not the fault of the mother, it is father who is responsible for it. The men should be educated about this. Due to consumption liquor there are many problems growing these days. Like Domestic Violence, Sexual Harassments and others. We should stop this, because it is the woman who has to suffer.
The selling of liquor must be stopped. Some people say that only cheap liquor will be banned. But we should stand against this, and make it sure that both the kinds of liquor are banned.
There was a question aroused by the Aasha workers, they work during the pregnancy, during monthly days, during rains and during summers but they do not have proper place to sit. The doctors have their own clinics, ANM have their own places and even Guards have their own room. Only the Aasha Workers have nothing and there should also be a discussion about this.
There was another question by Ms. Neelu to the doctors present there; a woman is always tortured and beaten up by their families, sometimes resulting in some serious injuries. What should be the role of the doctors if such kinds of patients come to them?
To this question the doctors answered that they should tell about this to the local authorities.
Dr. Ram singh said that it is a kind of disease if the women are not given equal importance. It is our duty to make this society a good place.
The workshop ended with a promise from all the participants of different field that they would follow their duties properly. The workshop was concluded with a vote of thanks from Ms. Shaila Praveen.


Saturday, June 25, 2016

State Level Workshop with Lawyers on PWDV Act 2005


 A  STATE  LEVEL  EVENT

''JUSTICE FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SURVIVORS''

 Workshop  on  Lawyers 
''Effective  Implementation of Domestic Violence Act''

Organised By Mahila Jagran Kendra & care India.

THE WORKSHOP

Mahila Jagaran Kendra supported by Care India organized a workshop on Protection of Women against Domestic violence at A.N. Sinha Institute of Social Studies, Patna. There were 44 advocates from Patna High Court, Civil Court and two districts (patna & Samastipur) of Bihar. The Guest speaker of the day was Seema Mishra, who is an advocate and practices law in Delhi High Court.
The Objective of the workshop was following
·         To sensitize Lawyers & Magistrate on the issue of domestic violence and its impact on women’s lives
·         To make our justice system more speedy for women.

A questionnaire was distributed among the participants to know whether they had any idea about this law or not. The questionnaire have the following questions:
1.      What do you understand by domestic violence?
2.      What are the provisions of Protection of Women against Domestic Violence Act?
3.      Have you ever used this Act?
4.      Till now how many women have you helped through this Act?
5.      Any important case in which judgment was passed by the court?
For the first question, 15 people explained domestic violence as the violence taking inside the house; 6 people wrote that it is the violence by men and 8 people explained it as any kind of violence happening to women.
For the second question 10 people wrote that the provision of the Act should be used; 8 people described the provisions of the Act as the order for the women to stay in the house, get annual economic support, health facilities and protection; 2 people wrote the provisions as order for the women to stay in the house, get annual economic support, health facilities and protection and get quick justice within 60 days; 4 people each wrote that it is the right for equality and safety.
For the third question 12 people wrote yes, 13 wrote no and 10 chose not to answer. For the forth question 17 people had altogether helped 546 ladies with the help of this Act; 6 people have not used this Act to help any woman and 10 choose not to answer. For the last question , 10 people wrote that no judgment have been passed; 8 people wrote that judgment has been passed in 12 cases and 15 chose not to answer.
Ram Kumar Sharma wrote “Gharelu hinsa mein, aapsi vivaad hota hai, mahilain apni pati, saas, sasur ityadi ke beech vivaad karte rehte hai. Mahilain apni haq ke leye vivaad khada karti hain, kuch jgah vivaad krne se haq ke praapti hoti hai’’
Amrendra Kumar wrote “Gharelu hinsa prarambhik awastha mein mahilaon ko apne pati ke sath jodne ka ek acha madhyam hai, kyun ki bina smjhe 498A 3/4 D.V. Act ka case nahi hai’’
Ram Kumar Sharma wrote that domestic violence is a good medium in the initial stage for a woman to connect with her husband because without understanding 498A – 3/4 D.V Act, a case cannot be filed.
Amrendra Kumar wrote that in domestic violence personal disputes tend to take place. Women keep disputing with their husband and in-laws. Women have to fight for their right and in some cases, only after a dispute the right is granted to her.


The workshop started from 11:00 a.m. with the warm welcome by Miss Babita from the Mahila Jagran Kendra. She introduced the Chief Guest and the other people who were attending the workshop. She also highlighted the main theme of the workshop, which was the discussion on the law made for Protection of Women against Domestic Violence.
The Chief Guest, Seema Mishra, is also a social activist who works for the welfare of the women in the society. She mostly takes up cases of Domestic Violence. She talked about the Protection of Women against Domestic Violence Act which was introduced in the year 2005 and the benefits the women will get through this act if subjected to domestic violence.
When this Act was introduced, many people referred it as “Ghar Phodu Act”. There were some people who thought that there was no need for the introduction of such acts. They argued that this act wills only resu lt in the breakup of family relations. Seema Mishra completed her point of view on this Act by saying that it is necessary for every advocate to understand the law before practicing it.
There was another eminent advocate named Dr. Meeta Mohini who gave her view on the PWDV Act.



She practices at the Patna High Court and is a social activist. Before becoming a practitioner of law, she was a professor at a law university. She talked about the main problems pertaining in the middle families which often results in Domestic violence. She pointed out that the person who earns the bread for the family is often frustrated seeing the expenses around him such as the school fees for the children, expenses for maintenance of the house among others.
There is always an urgent need of money for some or the other thing in the house. The frustration leads to anger and in this anger, the man ends up beating his wife. Usually the women bear this insult as much as possible, but when the man crosses his limits, she has no choice other than seeking help from the law. Dr. Meeta Mohini narrated a domestic violence case to her fellow advocates present at the workshop. She said that the advocates present the case as they please. They add their own clauses to make their case strong. Most of the women only seek justice and their rights; they are not interested in sending their husbands to jail. The law under this Act is often misused. The women not only undergo mental trauma, they are also subjected to physical and sexual violence.
After Seema Mishra and Dr. Meeta Mohini presented their point of view on the PWDV Act, the other advocates presented their views on this Act.
Nisha Sharma, who is a practicing advocate in Patna Civil Court, gave an example of a woman whose judgment on domestic violence case is passed. She was to be given Rs. 10,000 but no money was provided to her. She had been under domestic violence by her husband for the past 17 years.
Sarita Kumari is an advocate and practices law at the Barh Civil Court. She stated that lots of problems are faced by women while filing cases in the court. It becomes difficult for the female advocates to help those women. She questioned Seema Mishra how to help those women in giving them judicial justice.
Satish Kumar asked all the males present in the workshop to take an oath to abstain from domestic violence, not only with his wife but also with his mother, sister and daughter. He also said that verbal fights between a couple should not be referred as domestic violence. He stated that no home can work properly when the males of the house are practicing domestic violence.
Nitika is a practicing advocate and a house wife who compared the PWDV Act to a medicine. She stated that the basic point is that the woman should at least have the power to approach the court of law. She said that the lawyer also has to make himself powerful enough to help others.
The other advocates, present there, tried to explain their point of view on Article 498(a) and PWDV Act. The common question raised by most of them was “what is the definition of violence?” Before proceeding further, everyone must understand what violence is.

The definition for violence is behavior involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something.  The speaker then said about the Protection of Women against Domestic Violence Act as referred in a law book The Protection of Women against Domestic Violence Act 2005 differs from the provision of the Penal Code - Section 498 A of the Indian Penal Code - in that it provides a broader definition of domestic violence
Domestic violence is defined by Section 3 of the Act any act, omission or commission or conduct of the respondent shall constitute domestic violence in case it:
  1. harms or injures or endangers the health, safety, life, limb or well-being, whether mental or physical, of the aggrieved person or tends to do so and includes causing physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal and emotional abuse and economic abuse; or
  2. harasses, harms, injures or endangers the aggrieved person with a view to coerce her or any other person related to her to meet any unlawful demand for any dowry or other property or valuable security; or
  3. has the effect of threatening the aggrieved person or any person related to her by any conduct mentioned in clause (a) or clause (b); or
  4. injures or causes harm, whether physical or mental, to the aggrieved person.”
The Act goes on, through the section Explanation 1, to define "physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal and emotional abuse and economic abuse".
There were some victims of Domestic violence present there. One of them was Madhuri, she filed a case against her husband in 2003. She could not avail any lawyer because she did not have any money to pay their fee. She called all the help lines available but even they could not help her at all in this regardHer husband, who is a policeman, was shrewd enough to snatch that money from her. He told her that he is building a house in the village and she could stay there. He took her money and when the house was completed, he drove her away. For a decade, she has been fighting for justice but still no judgment has been passed in her case. Her case was heard by the Chief Guest Seema Mishra and she told her to present her legal documents before her. She took a personal interest in her case and promised her for the relief fund which she was supposed to get. Her case was over taken by the Mahila Jagran Kendra for further help.


Primarily meant to provide protection to the wife or female live-in partner from Domestic violence at the hands of the husband or male live-in partner or his relatives, the law also extends its protection to women living in a household such as sisters, widows or mothers. Domestic violence under the act includes actual abuse or the threat of abuse whether physical, verbal, emotional or economic harassment by way of unlawful dowry demands to the woman or her relatives would also be covered under this definition.
The salient features of the Protection from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 are as follows,
•          The Act seeks to cover those women who are or have been in a relationship with the abuser where both parties have lived together in a shared household and are related by consanguinity, marriage or a relationship in the nature of marriage, and addition relationship with family members living together as a joint family are also included. Even those women who are sisters, widows, mothers, single women, or living with them are entitled to get legal protection under the proposed Act.
•          One of the most important features of the Act is the woman’s right to secure housing. The Act provides for the woman’s right to reside in the matrimonial or shared household, whether or not she has any title or rights in the household. This right is secured by a residence order, which is passed by a court. These residence orders cannot be passed against anyone who is a woman.

•          The other relief envisaged under the Act is that of the power of the court to pass protection orders that prevent the abuser from aiding or committing an act of domestic violence or any other specified act, entering a workplace or any other place frequented by the abused, attempting to communicate with the abused, isolating any assets used by both the parties and causing violence to the abused, her relatives and others who provide her assistance from the domestic violence.
While "economic abuse" includes deprivation of all or any economic or financial resources to which the victim is entitled under any law or custom whether payable under an order of a Court or otherwise or which the victim requires out of necessity including, but not limited to, household necessities for the aggrieved person and her children, if any, property, jointly or separately owned by her, payment of rental related to the shared household and maintenance and disposal of household effects, any alienation of assets whether movable or immovable, valuables, shares, securities, bonds and the like or other property in which the victim has an interest or is entitled to use by virtue of the domestic relationship or which may be reasonably required by the victim or her children or her or any other property jointly or separately held by the victim and prohibition or restriction.
At the end of the program another questionnaire was distributed. The format was as follows:
Sr. No.

Satisfied
Dissatisfied
Average
1.
Subject of the workshop



2.
Format of the training



3.
Duration of the workshop



4.
Materials provided at the workshop



5.
Venue of training



6.
Food and other facilities




What is your feedback?
Was the workshop useful?
What is your suggestion on implementation of this Act?
32 people were satisfied with the workshop, 1 was dissatisfied and 1 found it average. 31 people were satisfied with the format of the training 2 were dissatisfied and 2 found it average. 28 people were satisfied with the duration of the workshop, 4 were dissatisfied and 2 found it average. 31 people were satisfied with the materials provided at the workshop, 3 were dissatisfied and 1 found it average. 34 people were satisfied with the venue of the training and 1 found it average. 33 people were satisfied with the food and other facilities and 2 found it average. All of the 66 participants present at the workshop found the workshop useful.
Among the other attendees were Miss Neelu , President of Mahila Jagran Kendra , Urmila Karn, Convener, Bihar Women’s Network , Shivani Choudhary , Secretary, Mahila Jagran Kendra Shruti  Sinha  , Advocate in Patna High Court and Executive member of Mahila Jagran Kendra , Bhushan Prasad , Accountant of Mahila Jagran Kendra,  Mr. Rupesh, Secretary, Kosish Charitable Trust , Ritwij , Project Coordinator, Koshish, Pappu , Accountant , Koshish among others.

The program ended with a vote of thanks from Miss Shaila, of Mahila Jagran Kendra. The program continued till 4.30 p.m. in the evening. There was also a stall present there which showcase the handmade products by the children of the NGO and some books on the general awareness for people. People showed a keen interest in the products like rakhi, soft toys and paper carry bags and roses.